We Are All Searching For The Same Thing... so why isn't it easier to find?

All the greatest love stories seem to have some sort of tragic accident or beautiful letdown. In some way it seems as if greatness is measured by pain. Was there compassion? Without suffering, there is no compassion...right?

We can measure our lives by many different means, and we can either choose who to love, or let fate bring them for us. Sometimes i like to believe that God has already settled who i am made to be with. That the man I'm matched to is somewhere in this world just waiting for me. It's nice to think this way, comforting more so. None the less, i can't help but wonder whether this is true.

A couple months ago i came across a picture, and on the picture is said, "Someday someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else." Of course, i smiled right away when i read it! Maybe that's just me being young and naive, but i would be lying if i didn't say that there's a big part of my heart hoping that what the picture said, is true.

There has to be something to it! Why does everyone search their whole lives to find ONE person?! It doesn't even make sense to be with one person forever, considering all the different people you meet over one lifespan. How are you supposed to know, i mean actually KNOW, that "this guy" is THE ONE?! If people are so sure that you just feel it in your bones somehow, then why are divorce rates practically higher than marriage rates?

I just worry about my generation sometimes. We are so quick to mix SEX with LOVE, that soon enough we let our bodies trick us into saying yes, when it should be no. Simply put, i like answers. I like being in control, and things that i can't predict.... SCARE ME.

I'm worried

for loves sake